Published in The Startup·PinnedMember-onlyTo Be Happy, Let Go of All Your Reference PointsWhat Adyashanti Calls ‘Deframing,’ Rather than ‘Reframing’ — I was listening to The Personal MBA on Audible yesterday, and I had a ‘eureka’ moment when I heard what Josh Kaufman said about reference points. To be honest, I don’t really remember what he said because it was drowned out by my sudden revelation. To sum up, that revelation…Personal Development4 min readPersonal Development4 min read
Oct 8, 2022Member-onlyLightLight conquers the dark But have you ever considered That light will shine in through the cracks of your life And break apart the darkness So completely, until there is…Art1 min readArt1 min readLightLight conquers the darkBut have you ever consideredThat light will shine in through the cracks of your lifeAnd break apart the darknessSo completely, until there is…----
Published in The Startup·Sep 24, 2019Member-only7 Things I’ve Learned about Managing People from Teaching ElementaryWhen I first came to Korea, I worked in a consulting and tutoring job, rather than in teaching, but for the past two and a half years, I’ve been teaching rooms full of elementary students full time. Here are some things I’ve learned about managing people from the experience. Suffice…Life Lessons4 min readLife Lessons4 min read
Sep 16, 2019Member-onlyWhat It Was Like Attending One of the Best Private Schools in AmericaAnd How ‘A Life of Productivity’ Dug Me Out of My Pit of Self-Destructiveness — When I dropped out of U.C. Berkeley in my junior year, a semester of rest was a long time in coming. I had burned out in my junior year of high school at the prestigious and grueling Phillips Exeter Academy. …Education4 min readEducation4 min read
Sep 6, 2019Member-onlyAggressive Management No Longer Works: Here’s What DoesTwo Suggestions from Real Life — Gone are the days when managers and bosses could tell you what to do. Especially in sectors where job growth is high, employees have a lot of leverage to up and leave if they aren’t happy — and both the employee and the manager know it. …Management3 min readManagement3 min read
Sep 6, 2019Member-onlyThe Case for Giving Up the Search for Definitive AnswersI used to want to be certain about everything in life. I thought that as long as I had the right answer, everything would be okay. Until my mom told me something revolutionary. As we were arguing within the family, as we sometimes do, she told me: “Being right doesn’t…Love2 min readLove2 min read